Robot Monk Xian'er

暴躁的性格能改得了吗？Is it possible to change the short-tempered character? 要改掉一个坏习惯，最好的办法莫过于培养一个好习惯。The best way to get rid of a bad habit is to develop a good one. 人的心念不是一成不变的，而是一念一念不断流转、变化的，犹如一条奔腾的河流，如果我们不断向这个河流中加入脏东西，它就越来越黑；如果我们不断清理污垢，它就越来越清。Our thoughts are not unchangeable, flowing one after another like a rushing river. If we keep adding the dirt to the river, it will become darker and darker; If we keep cleaning the dirt, it will get clearer and clearer. “生气”是一种思维习惯，总是发脾气，这个习气就越来越顽固，性格就越来越暴躁；不断改变内心，脾气就越来越小。"Getting angry" is a thinking habit. If you lose your temper all the time, you will reinforce the bad habit and make your character increasingly irritable; Keep changing your mind, and you’ll become less grumpy. 师父，我很易怒，常常控制不住自己发脾气，但事后又后悔，有什么好方法可以控制发脾气吗？ Master, I am irritable and often lose my temper uncontrollably, but later I regret it. Is there a good way to control my temper? 脾气暴躁、易怒，就好比内心堆满了易燃物——“嗔烦恼”，外境一点火星就容易引发大火。消防之道，重在平常之防，真正引发火灾后再救是万不得已的办法，而且再怎么救，也会造成很大的损失。Grumpiness and irrita