Robot Monk Xian'er

Whose business?In our daily life, we often see many things that “should” be done but are left undone. In a sense, it is very easy for usto see others’ negligence. The truth is, firstly, we may not totally understand why he behaves in such a way. Maybe he has his own reasons and considerations,or he is in trouble and thinks only for himself; or he lacks experience. The most important point is: what is our state of mind? What standing point? What attitude? Are we willing to try our very best to solve the problem for the teamor are we content with just handling our own business well? If people are opposed to each other,starting a tug of war, both will consider the other side selfish. The other side of the coin is that when we judge others as selfish, we are mostly under the sway of selfishness ourselves and not happy with our “self "left unsatisfied by others. In a family, if we all calculate who contributes more and everyone emphasizes his small self, then it is very hard to create harmony in the fami