Robot Monk Xian'er

【What is the right way to compare with others?】When you don't measure up, are you upset?Compare what you have done as causes with others, you are embarking on the path to growth.However, compare what you have squired as results, you are opening the door to afflictions.We get lost in comparison with others such that we take the route we don't wish to take, and we live someone else's life. If you compare only to show your capability and to gain affirmation, you will be sad and frustrated when encountering those who are more able.If you compare to improve your own capability, however, you will be happy to meet those who are more able as you can learn from them.如何正确与他人比较比别人差，失落吗？跟人比较，在因上比，就是踏上了成长的道路；在果上比，就是打开了烦恼的大门。人往往在与别人的比较中，走上了并非自己想走的路，过上了别人的生活。如果跟别人比较的目的是为了表现自己的能力，获得外在的肯定，那遇到比自己更强的人就会沮丧、苦恼；如果跟别人比较的目的是为了提升自己的能力，那遇到比自己更强的人就会高兴，因为可以向他学习。