Robot Monk Xian'er

Don’t care so much about othersWhen thinking only from one’s own perspective, one feels that nothing is going well.This is because of our obsession with the self as if a hedgehog being against everything. Try to put ourselves in others’ shoes and take a holistic perspective.We will then be able to pull the thorn out of our mind and have a broader mindset. When caring too much about others’ words and feelings, we are not really into how others feel.We are however into how they see us.We want to please others in order to gain our own satisfaction in return.We care about our own happiness and sufferings by looking and exploring outwards.Whereas Bodhisattvas care about happinessof all sentient beings, they do so by accumulating wisdom and blessings. This is why we are miserable while they are joyful and at ease. Make a daily vow: May my words bring happiness, hope and help to others.Do not worry about losing face, failure, and how others see you. 别那么“在乎”别人凡事只从自己的角度考虑，就很容易觉得事事不顺心，“我执”膨胀，犹如一个刺猬般处处对立。多代人着想，观顾大局，拔掉自己