Robot Monk Xian'er

How to hold your temper【Xian’ersays so: “hold it for 10 minutes before going off.”】Shifuasked Xian’er:“Why have you been taking a stopwatch with you?”Xian’er didn’t dare to answer.Shifu asked again: “Why do you keep looking at the stopwatch when I criticizeyou?”Again, Xian’er didn’t dare to answer.Shifu continued: “Don’t think that I don’t know if you keep quiet. You naughtykid, behave yourself !” Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’sinsight on the path to speaking like a Buddha.When you are about to lose your temper,Tell yourself: “Hold it for 10 minutes.”When you don’t have enough strength,Try not to confront the enemy affliction head-on,  Avoiding its edge and blunting its drive.  如何才能让自己不发脾气【贤二如是说：十分钟后再发脾气】师父问贤二，你最近干吗老是带着块秒表？贤二不敢回答。师父又问，为什么我一批评你，你就看表？贤二还是不敢回答。师父说，你以为你不说我就不知道，你这个熊孩子，反了你了。以下来自我师父的《好好说话》脾气要爆发时，告诉自己：“十分钟后再发脾气。”力量不够时，勿与烦恼大敌正面冲突，避其锋芒、挫其锐气。