Losing Our Religion

Anthony and I talk about manifesting, meditation, visualization, which is very triggering to me from my upbringing. He's benefited from the Landmark Forum, where others call it a cult. As I’ve healed, I’ve learned. Some of these tools are helpful to both of us — especially the mental discipline to stop the false stories that our ego-mind likes to create. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Anthony Carson Music on Spotify Music Insta: @anthonyevancarson Drawings Insta: @drawingsbyrequest Anthony Carson Support - Patreon COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training: Rembering Who You Are, Reprogramming & Transformation. Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! CONTACT THE GUEST: Anthony Carson FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 218: It Doesn’t Have to Mean Anything: Anthony Carson LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a

I posted a quote from Kobe Bryant this weekend as I heard about his & his daughter's tragic accident with seven others in a helicopter. I’m not a basketball fan and didn’t even know that Kobe was accused of rape in 2003. A couple of you were upset feeling I was “ok” with his being a “rapist.” I am most certainly NOT. So I talk here about my personal struggle with continuing to carry anger against my abusers. "What has happened is tragic. I am heartbroken for Kobe’s family. He was a sports hero. He was also a rapist, and all of these truths can exist simultaneously." - Evan Rachel Wood, actress. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Sexual assault claim marked Kobe Bryant’s darkest episode By Tamar Lapin, January 26, 2020 The 9 Victims of the Helicopter Crash That Killed Kobe Bryant By Sarah Mervosh and Nicholas Bogel-Burroughs, Jan. 27, 2020 NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: It's time for c

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Today's episode is about when things get better. When you get to the point, you're ready to heal, to grow, to let go, and to throw two fingers to the air and go for it. Have you been there? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Things Get Better: Zac Gandara LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. : COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA Thinking Thursday: Thinking Thursday is about learning how to think. We live in a world

Anthony is an artist and musician, born into a Kansas military family. Left home at 18 and has traveled and experienced a lot of life, including but not limited to his own healing and work toward building the presence he desires. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Anthony Carson Music on Spotify Music Insta: @anthonyevancarson Drawings Insta: @drawingsbyrequest Anthony Carson Support - Patreon COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training: Rembering Who You Are, Reprogramming & Transformation. Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! CONTACT THE GUEST: Anthony Carson FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 217: Let Them Be Who They Are, Let Myself Be Who I am: Anthony Carson LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! J

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, from his sermon, Antidotes for Fear, stated, “Normal fear protects us; abnormal fear paralyzes us. Normal fear motivates us to improve our individual and collective welfare; abnormal fear constantly poisons and distorts our inner lives. Our problem is not to be rid of fear but rather to harness and master it.” Let’s talk about that! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: It's time for change. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: Antidotes for Fear: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Thanks, Bryan, for sending us this article. It seems other articles might say that they are banning religious schools. But it seems to be the narrative coming from that part of the world. Should childhood religious indoctrination be regulated like alcohol? What do you think? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Sweden Bans The Religious Indoctrination Of Children: Zac Gandara: Andrew Hall LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to co

Kevin is a therapist with a past of religious trauma. He's worked hard over the years on his healing as well as helping the healing of others. As a parent, he has helped me overcome the fear of f*cking up my kids. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training: Rembering Who You Are, Reprogramming & Transformation. Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. A FAVOR : SURVEY : What are your top two questions about deprogramming and transition (change)? CONTACT THE GUEST: CONTACT ZAC FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 216: Growing, Healing, Parenting Our Kids and Ourselves: Kevin “Kylo Zen” LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! Join the CounterCulture Society and become a Produce

Fellow loser and listener Laura feels she’s too old for nudes and sexy pics. Is there an age limit? I like him, but I don’t know if I am comfortable with this. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: It's time for change. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: Sending Nudes and Sexy Pics: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. [GET COACHING NOW!] Monday Meltdown is Our Weekly Chat with Each Other: Your Questions, Confessions, Comments and Meltdowns. Join the Monday Meltdown show wit

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. We grow up being told what is true and what isn’t. As we grow, we learn to find our way. When we really grow, we learn to smile at fear because the thing behind the fear is more growth. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Embracing the Things That Scare You: Jonathan Bowles: Zac Gandara LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. : COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA Thinking Thursday: Thinking Thursday is about learning ho

Kevin has recovered from religious trauma after growing up Christian at Mars Hill Church. He’s become a therapist, educated, and motivated to help others. He also moonlights as the beatbox artist “Kylo Zen.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: STOP, BREATH, AND THINK APP COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. A FAVOR : SURVEY : What are your top two questions about deprogramming and transition (change)? CONTACT THE GUEST: CONTACT ZAC FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 215: Changing Anxiety Into Curiosity: Kevin "Kylo Zen" LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! Join the CounterCulture Society and become a Producer through our Patreon. FOLLOW US: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LosingOurReligionPodcast.com. RECEIVE WEEKLY EMAIL CONTENT: Join our email list. Mu

We have a guest on the show today! Jonathan Bowles is an entrepreneur with a megachurch pastor past. We take this time to talk about a rupture we had in our relationship and how we worked to repair it. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: JONATHAN BOWLES NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: It's time for change. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: Change is NOT hard, Healing is: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. [GET COACHING NOW!] Monday Meltdown is Our Weekly Chat with Each Other: Your Questions, Confessio

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Why do we make out? Do you like kissing? Where did it come from? Here is some science behind why we push our lips together and stick our tongues in other people's mouths. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Why humans kiss, explained: A comic about the cultural and scientific reasons we love making out. By Xulin Wang NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Why Do We Kiss? Let’s Make Out!: Xulin Wang: Zac Gandara LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through

Comedian, Magician and beautiful human Taylor Hughes is I the show today. We talk about Chasing Wonder, therapy, and coaching that has changed our lives, and Taylor’s new live taping at the Dynasty Typewriter Theater in Los Angeles, Jan 7th! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Taylor Hughes: Chasing Wonder (Live Special Taping) JAN 7, 2020 COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. A FAVOR : SURVEY : What are your top two questions about deprogramming and transition (change)? CONTACT THE GUEST: Taylor Hughes FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 214: Why Can’t I Be Happy All the Time?: Taylor Hughes LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! Join the CounterCulture Society and become a Producer through our Patreon. FOLLOW US: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LosingOurRel

We all grew up being told and believing due to our own experiences that “changing” is hard. Our weight, our addictions, you name it we’ve all tried. Here is a jumpstart to your 2020 goals. Change can be easy! But healing is hard. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: It's time for change. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: Change is NOT hard, Healing is: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. [GET COACHING NOW!] Monday Meltdown is Our Weekly Chat with Each Other: Your Question

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Writer Tracey Anne Duncan suggests there is a point where too much positivity is toxic for us. Do you believe this? What do you think? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Toxic Positivity: The emotional toll of trying to be happy all the time by Tracey Anne Duncan NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Toxic Positivity: The emotional toll of trying to be happy all the time: Tracey Anne Duncan: Zac Gandara LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. : CO

This episode with Nave is a highly entertaining deep talk. We go through all of the essential topics to us. Spiritual practices we’ve kept, sexual preferences, kinks, and whiskey, I mean “tea.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. A FAVOR : SURVEY : What are your top two questions about deprogramming and transition (change)? CONTACT THE GUEST: Through Zac Gandara FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 213: Deep Talks, Loud Laughs, Spirituality, and Sex: Nave LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! Join the CounterCulture Society and become a Producer through our Patreon. FOLLOW US: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LosingOurReligionPodcast.com. RECEIVE WEEKLY EMAIL CONTENT: Join our email list. Music Featured in this Episode: L

We've all heard someone explain to us how we should feel, according to them. Well, you are the one who gets to say what hurt, what wasn’t good enough, and what you didn’t deserve. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming & Transformation, Your Access is Waiting! Become a Member Now! COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: No One Get’s to Tell You How to Feel: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. [GET COACHING NOW!] Monday Meltdown is Our Weekly Chat with Each Other: Your Questions, Confess

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. We can have ego love with family, friends, or partners. We have it subconsciously until we learn what it is, wake up to its toxicity, and embrace healing work to live out authentic love. Do you believe we can learn to love authentically? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: @the.holistic.psychologist : Ego love is fear-based. COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release THIS EPISODES SHOW NOTES: THINKING THURSDAY: Ego Love vs. Authentic Love: Zac Gandara LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. : COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA Thinking Thursday: Thinking Thursday is about learning how to think. We live in a world where people like to te

Nave, raised in a commune, with a traumatic past that she scarcely remembers. Through it all, she continues to find healing and kick life in the ass. She’s a genuinely fantastic human with a heart of tough gold. You will be inspired and laugh a lot. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. ONLY 2 SPOTS LEFT! CONTACT THE GUEST: Contact Zac For Details FULL SHOW NOTES: EPISODE 210: Life is Weird, Love is Weird, It’s Hard, We Can Change!: Nave LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed DO YOU LOVE THE PODCAST? JOIN US WITH SUPPORT. Support the podcast by leaving us a Rating & Review on iTunes or your podcast app. Donate to the Podcast. Through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App! Join the CounterCulture Society and become a Producer through our Patreon. FOLLOW US: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and LosingOurReligionPodcast.com. RECEIVE WEEKLY EMAIL CONTENT: Join our email list. Music Featured in this Episode: LOR Theme

Many of us have encountered narcissists in our lifetimes that used and abused us. Once we learn of their control over us, it’s essential to break the tie and begin setting boundaries. How do you recognize a narcissist? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: COACHING WITH ZAC GANDARA: Break glass ceilings and transition through tough shit. WEEKLY EMAIL: Coaching, News, and Updates on New Video Training Release SHOW NOTES: MONDAY MELTDOWN: Clues You May Be Dealing with a Narcissist: Zac Gandara "You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better." - Anne Lamott LOSER DEALS: Save 50% on QuickBooks Online and QuickBooks Self-Employed Transitions are hard, making them alone, even harder. Sometimes you need an unbiased third part to coach you through. [GET COACHING NOW!] Monday Meltdown is Our Weekly Chat with Each Other: Your Questions, Confessions, Comments and Meltdowns. Join the Monday Meltdown show with your questions, comments