The Susan Winter Show

The first step to getting off the game board is to realize you’re on it. Freedom to be yourself can never be had while someone else is pulling the strings. No meaningful relationship can be formed with ‘game’ as its foundation. Learn how to set yourself free and turn the tables toward love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Here are the signs that tell you whether someone has the ability to care (but is hesitant), as opposed to someone who’s unable to care and unwilling to be a true partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Duty dating is a way to kick-start your love life by expanding your options and pushing past your comfort zone. Whether you’ve been too lazy or too fearful, a couple of practice rounds will loosen you up while showing you what you like and want. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

The emotional rollercoaster caused by a lover’s unwanted behavior can be so dramatic that we assume we’re in love. Here’s the difference between ‘needing to win’ control and what we often think is love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Learn the art of mastering the perfect response to any form of bad behavior when dating. Here’s how to find your unique style to effectively correct and reroute your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Frustrated by the lack of thoughtful behavior in dating? Wondering how to make “no rules” dating work for you? Here’s one rule that must be honored for you to succeed in finding and keeping love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

The “text message” breakup is a cowardly escape plan that avoids the emotional fallout of having a proper ending. The partner who does this lacks character and kindness. Though you’re hurting now, you’re lucky to be free. Here’s why you’re better off in the long run. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

How far apart can the power differences be between you and your mate and still result in a happy, functional relationship? Here are the red flags to look for when entering a partnership, and the adjustments that need to be made in an established relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

New relationships can experience fits and starts. There’s much happening behind the scenes that you won’t know (and your new partner may not be telling you). When something feels off, how can you know if it’s you, or it’s the truth? Here’s how to gauge your instincts and also allow room for human error. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

When you know yourself, any decision on dating, sex, or relationships results in an effortless answer. Don’t preoccupy your mind with, “What do they want?” Reverse the order. Trust yourself to be your best advocate and guide to knowing how to achieve love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Too short, but just right? Older than you wanted but the perfect fit? Too thin, too full, too dark, too light… what happens when we find our perfect match in an unexpected package? Here’s how to get past preconceived ideas as to your “perfect” physical package and embrace the love you’ve found. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Anyone who’s been on the losing end of a breakup fantasizes about gaining the upper hand over their ex. This can only happen when you’ve taken the time to reinvest in yourself.  Newfound confidence is sexy and enticing, especially to your ex. When you’re no longer under their thumb, you’ve gained the upper hand. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Learning to love is like learning how to drive a car. We need formal instruction and behind-the-wheel training. Here’s how to understand your “manual” and prepare yourself for any type of terrain. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Power differences between partners can set the stage for ongoing relationship issues. From insecurity, jealousy and feeling devalued, to feeling a false sense of safety and superiority— trading up too high or down too low in a mate will create internal chaos. Here’s how to get the power structure re-stabilized, and to your favor. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

The loss of a partner is difficult under normal circumstances. When it’s due to death, the devastation is amplified exponentially.  Guilt and fear can keep us frozen in time, afraid to move forward with our lives for fear we’re betraying their memory. Here’s how to mentally justify wanting to date again, and how to be open to the experience of love. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

You’ve got shared attraction and ongoing communication. You’re definitely in the game. But, you’re not getting a solid green light for romance. Here’s how to pivot to a hard YES with your date, or tally up your odds and adjust accordingly. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

You’ve patched up your relationship. Things are going well. But you’re wondering if the issues of the past are really gone. Here’s how to make the necessary changes you need to make your love last. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Deal breakers are fluid in new relationships. When we’re really into someone, we’ll overlook things we said we didn’t want in a partner. Yet, when we’re not fully connecting to our mate, a minor infraction becomes a “reason” to exit. Here’s the difference between a valid deal breaker and the perfect excuse to leave a new relationship. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Your new mate’s just given you an excuse that feels lame. Before you spin out of control, pause. Here’s the best way to handle suspecting a lie, while hoping to preserve a new relationship and get to the truth. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

We’re living in a time period of evolutionary disruption—which including dating. Here’s how to create a better structure for a love that works for you. ‘A La Carte Love’ allows you to be the designer of the type of romantic format that resonates for you For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/