The Susan Winter Show

Viewer Fiona writes, “How do you date when your career is in shambles or ‘in process?’ It's not ideal, but if the career is not a 6 month fix, should you abstain from the dating market?I have met interesting men in the past two years. Despite an initial attraction, all evaporate. I’ve been very unsuccessful on the career front and wonder if the two are related? Is my disappointment with career acting as a repellent?”For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Shanewrites, “Dear Susan, Enjoying your videos and website, finding your perspective refreshing and insightful. I have a question that’s recently crossed my mind. For us younger men who are attracted to and/or seeing an older woman what would you say is the most common mistake we make with an older woman?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Hot and cold isn’t always what it seems. Though we’re savvy to this dating game, what if we’re wrong? Could our partner be having a reaction to our reaction? And could two loving people become distanced simply due to fear? Here’s how to discern between your partner caring, and one who's only playing a game. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Gary H writes, “In your opinion, when is it the best time to let someone know that you like them. Can it ever be too early to do so?Thanks, Gary.“  Here are several options to let someone know you’re interested, with the proper timing. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

As a self-empowered dater, you may seem ‘too good to be true.’ Honest, open and real, your demeanor may throw off a new partner. Here’s why being real looks like a game to the disempowered, and how you can remain calm while they warm to your truth. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Lana writes, “Dear Susan.Thank you so much for your helpful videos. My friends claim that a man knows very quickly whether the woman is girlfriend material or not. Perhaps just after few dates. Could you make a video about this topic? I was seeing a guy who played hot and cold on me, and my friends explained that it is because he knew from the beginning that I am not girlfriend material. Thanks a lot. XX.” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Marlena writes, “Hi Susan. Hope all is well. I’ve been watching your videos and you’re really awesome!My question is; I’m in a 9-year relationship off and on. My partner told me he needed time to see other people this year in order to make a decision at the end of the year to formalize our relationship. How would you handle a situation like this??! I am frustrated and confused....” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

We’ll never be free to love when our focus is the fear of getting hurt. That outlook negates happiness as it keeps our guard up and locks love out. Here’s how to make smart choices and trust yourself. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Lola writes, “Hi Susan! How do you move on from rejection and not let it affect your self worth?”  Though your ego is bruised, one person doesn’t determine your worth. Here’s how to process what occurred and move forward. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Jelena Gavranovic writes, “Dear Susan, Nearly all men I date send out a strong signal that they want to take me to bed. I'm sometimes at a loss in finding the balance between taking time to get to know someone, or the instant attraction (happened once) where it all went too quickly and after 3 months he said he wasn’t ready to commit. Must attraction be there from the very beginning? And if so, at what level?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Torrie T writes, “Hi Susan. I've held this question in my heart for many years and would love to hear your advice. How do you move forward in dating/relationships after a history of sexual trauma (any type). I know this is a touchy subject, but I believe that you give wise, insightful counsel. I would truly appreciate your input. Thanks!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Love conquers all.” That can be true — when both partners are unified in their goals and dreams. Love is not enough when the price you pay is compromising your own goals and dreams. Here’s how to know when you’ve given too much. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Erica K writes, “Hi Susan. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us:) I have been dating a guy from Tinder for 8 months now and he recently asked to be exclusive and ”more serious”. I asked him if he still uses Tinder, he said no.(I deleted my profile a long time ago) Yesterday I found out that he still is on Tinder and it really is bugging me and I feel really sad. How do I confront him without being needy?” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Maryam writes, “How to deal or empower yourself when you finally find someone you think you deserve, but you keep doubting yourself and your ability to secure happiness?” Thanks Maryam! Here’s the technique I use to eradicate limiting thoughts and rewrite my inner directives. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Sam King writes, “Do you think you can make us a video regarding why do we still love people who do not love us back ??????? i love your work , you are awesome in every way. “ Learn how you can turn the pain into strength by spinning a win from your loss. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Maryam writes, “How can I avoid getting down and depressed when I experience challenge after challenge in dating, and see that most of my friends have found their match much easier. “ Here’s the antidote to this negative thought and how to avoid feeling despair. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

George Wolf writes, “Hi Susan! I have a suggestion for a video — haven’t seen it covered on your channel yet. How to handle dating in the workplace? Should it be avoided? If we are to proceed, how would you handle it? Many thanks and wishing you the best!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Has your partner become complacent? Are they taking you for granted, bored or losing interest? Here’s how to reboot your relationship and reactivate their passion, interest and desire. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

The nagging question of self-love leaves many daters feeling defeated. What if we don’t fully love ourselves? Does it exclude us from finding love? Remove the pressure to be perfect and learn how this natural process occurs throughout life (to aid you in all your goals). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Adventure Tube writes, “Hey Susan could you please make a video about bickering and what are your thoughts about it, and how do we deal with our emotions when somebody is so negative and holds onto everything!??” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/