The Susan Winter Show

Viewer Ceri writes, “Dear Susan, can you please share some practical methods one can possibly use to stop obsessively thinking about someone? Thank you so much!” Here’s the adjustment you need to get out of the loop of mental obsession and move forward. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

All new relationships have fits and starts. There will be gaps in communication, times you’re left wondering if they still care, false cues and confusing moves. Here’s how to keep your calm and maintain the connection (without blowing up the bridge). For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Beauty Means writes, “Thank you Susan. I always benefit from your advice. I have a question: Can a relationship be successful if the partners have different interests and the woman is of much better education than the man?” My answer shows you how to gain balance and focus on the best your mate has to offer. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

We all have insecurities. What may be a minor concern can become magnified as a major issue within a relationship. Here’s how to handle the fears and self-judgment that arise when in partnership, and see yourself in positive and accurate light. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

The hallmark of self-acceptance and self-love is to be able to stand in front of someone and be completely transparent and open. This is the exact opposite of hot and cold partners. Learn the secret they’re hiding from you to turn the tables on the game. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Emilia Bianco writes, “When you’re getting to know someone, you like them but you’re not yet in love, how do you manage that and avoid hurting them, and how long should it take?” Here’s my answer to your question on personal responsibility and expectations. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

You know they want you. So why do they pretend they don’t? Learn why your partner’s self-protection gives you false clues, and uncover what they’re really feeling. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Janet L writes, “Hi Susan, hope you're well. Speaking of break ups, could you do a video on why an ex wants to stay in touch? Is it to keep their options open, someone to talk to, booty calls, something more? (I'm speaking about men wanting this and I'm sure women do too) tx!” For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Michelle Grenier who writes, “Hi Susan!  Can you make a video on tips for online dating for women over 40 or the red flags to spot in men online?” How does one mate and date over 40? Here’s my general advice for both sexes, and my specific answer to Michelle. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

We often fail to properly categorize our love interests, especially when a relationship ends. If we assume they were “The One,” we’ll agonize their loss. But, were they? Really? Here’s how to decode your true mate from a prototype, and apply that benefit to your future. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Why does your partner pull away the minute you finally relax? Learn the shocking reason for this dating game and regain your serenity with calm and confidence. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Follow My Logic writes, “I’ve heard it said over and over that according to research a woman is ‘more attracted to a man whose feelings are unclear’. Is this true in your experience? Might this be true with women of a certain age, more so than other ages?” Learn why this “appears” to be the case, but isn’t. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Feeling like a non-priority? The goal isn’t to make yourself okay with being treated badly, but to know our rights and speak up. Here’s how to ask the right questions and incentivize the right treatment. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Claire asks, “How does one get over the anger of a failed relationship? I think I’m healing well, then this bubble of anger erupts when I think of him in an unguarded moment. At the end of the day, all he’s actually guilty of is preferring someone else over me.  Any advice you can give would be appreciated.“For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Here’s the key to knowing how to navigate ‘game’ and cut through dating confusion.  Learn how to clear out the conflicting voices of those around you, and discover the real truth of what you have with your partner. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Richard Gonzalez asks, “Hi Susan I really love the advice that you give I would appreciate (and I'm sure other viewers of your Channel would too) —your thoughts on how to handle a on-and-off relationship that's been going on for a few months or a few years I would really love your Insight on it.” Learn how to get through (and beyond) what keeps breaking you up. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Tired of being relegated to a ‘limited relationship?’ Here’s what you need to know in order to expand your connection and still show up as ALL that you are. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Viewer Bang Bang writes, “What’s the difference between deflectors, the confused and game players?” With all the games that funnel through as bad behavior, here’s the breakdown of the big 3 you need to know. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

How concerned should you be if you find your partner looking? How much is normal? Here are the signs that signify ‘looking’ denotes serious interest. This is part 2 of a conversation from my interview with International Business Times TV/Medical Daily: The Wandering Eye: Why We Check Other People Out In Front Of Our Partner http://video.ibt.com/wandering-eye-why-we-check-other-people-out-front-our-partner-37315 For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/

Flowerdiva 18 writes, “Susan, how do we deal with a partner’s ex that hasn’t fully left their life? I'm dealing with this ex that I haven’t met, and she keeps meddling in my boyfriend's life and he doesn't even realize it. I don't want to set ultimatums: it's me of her, but I find it a constant irritant that she’s still manipulating him. Thank you Susan!” Here’s my answer to solving this dilemma. For more information please visit my website at http://www.susanwinter.net/