Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

In this episode, I sit down with Veronica Wang, a popular Mukbang YouTuber, to dive into her journey with relationships, fear of intimacy, and how past experiences have shaped her approach to dating.   We explore how kissing and sex can create emotional bonds that sometimes lead to toxic relationships and share strategies on how to protect yourself from falling for the wrong person. Join us as we discuss overcoming fears, setting healthy boundaries, and finding the right partner.  

In this episode, I talk to a couple who grew up in a Christian background and were indoctrinated to believe that exploring their bodies before marriage was wrong.   These beliefs shaped their views on sexuality and impacted their relationship. They also held strong gender role beliefs, which led to further challenges in their partnership. The couple shares their journey of deconstructing these long-held beliefs and how they've rebuilt their relationship, emerging as a stronger, more connected couple today.  

In this episode, I chat with a guest who joined my TikTok live and asked if my dating and relationship rules are based on traditional views.   We discuss how these rules are rooted in logic and the importance of taking control of our own actions and choices. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or in a relationship, this conversation sheds light on why it’s crucial to set standards that are practical and self-empowering rather than relying on outdated norms. Tune in for a fresh perspective on relationships that’s all about self-awareness and logic.

In this episode, I chatted with a woman who joined me on my TikTok Live and shared her inspiring journey of breaking free from an abusive relationship. After following my content for a while, she found the strength to leave her toxic ex. Now, she’s ready to take the next steps and wonders how she can prepare herself for a healthy and fulfilling dating experience. We discuss key insights and actionable tips to help anyone who’s been through a tough breakup get ready to re-enter the dating world with confidence and clarity.

    In this short podcast episode, I am joined by a special guest who shared her powerful story during a TikTok live session. She opens up about how she was brainwashed into believing she should preserve her body solely for her future husband, a notion that stripped away her autonomy and self-worth. Together, we delve into her journey of realization and empowerment as she breaks free from these limiting beliefs and reclaims her body and voice. Join us for a conversation about autonomy, self-discovery, and the importance of owning your narrative.

In this episode, we tackle a recurring and heated topic: the unsolicited opinions of some guys about women's autonomy over our bodies.   Join us as we discuss a recent live session where a male participant insisted that women should be held accountable for their body count. We delve into the underlying issues of control, insecurity, and double standards that fuel such arguments. Our conversation highlights the importance of bodily autonomy, the right to make personal choices without judgment, and the necessity of rejecting outdated, oppressive views.   Tune in to hear empowering responses and insightful discussions on maintaining our self-worth and dignity in the face of criticism.

In this episode, I talk to a member of the LGBTQ+ community who joined my TikTok live to discuss some of my most popular dating strategies. We dive into their curiosity about the "No Kissing for 3 Months" rule, explore the concept of a "No Fight" relationship, and debunk the myth that body count matters. I also share how my dating strategies are designed to be inclusive and effective for all genders. Tune in for an engaging conversation that challenges traditional dating norms and offers fresh perspectives for everyone.

A guy joined my TikTok live and kept yapping about why body count matters. He tried to change my mind, but I stood firm, explaining how women have autonomy over our own bodies and shouldn't be controlled by societal indoctrination or his insecurities.   Tune in as I challenge his views and advocate for women's empowerment and freedom.   This is a conversation you don't want to miss!

I explore a listener's dilemma about whether she should hook up with a guy who seems like he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't align with what she wants long-term.   Join me as I discuss the importance of knowing your desires, assessing the risks, and making informed decisions when faced with such tempting yet complicated situations. 

In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He expresses concern that by not going exclusive, he might miss out if the woman chooses someone else before he gets a chance. I take this opportunity to clarify the process, emphasizing the importance of not giving exclusivity out of insecurity. We delve into why a thorough vetting period is crucial for building a solid foundation in relationships.   I also recommend he check out my book, "The Perfect Play," the ultimate dating guide for men. Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on mindful dating strategies and the value of patience.

Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, drawing insights from my book Fix That Shit. Discover practical strategies for healthier relationships.  

In this podcast episode, I talk with a man who shares his experience of domestic violence. He discusses using a rage room to manage his anger. We discuss choosing supportive partners and healthy coping mechanisms. I recommended he and his partner grab my book 'Fix That Shit,' which teaches healthy communication tools.

This episode features a discussion about the 'no kissing for 3 months' rule and maintaining non-exclusivity during this period to vet potential partners effectively. The focus is on how these strategies help in assessing loyalty and establishing security in a relationship. For more insightful episodes, subscribe to our podcast        

During a TikTok live session, I chat with a guy interested in the journey of self-discovery before entering the dating world. We explore why it’s essential to understand yourself and know what you want before starting a relationship. We also discuss why a person's 'body count' shouldn't influence your view of them and the benefits of the 'no kissing for three months' dating rule. Tune in for a conversation that might reshape your approach to dating and personal connections!

In this episode, we dive into a live coaching session where I answer your dating questions. We discuss when to introduce a new partner to your close circle, explore date ideas, and cover how to ensure safety when dating. Tune in for advice and tips to improve your dating experience.   Whether you're new to dating or looking to deepen a relationship, this episode offers practical insights for everyone.   Join us as we navigate modern dating using the No Kissing for 3 Months dating Rule.